Toy Story 5: A Beautiful Reminder of Why Play Matters
Over the weekend, I took my children to see Toy Story 5 at the movies, and I absolutely loved it. It made me laugh, reflect, and, at times, become quite emotional. While it's a family film, it also carries some confronting messages that I think many parents will relate to.
One of the things I admired most was that Toy Story 5 was brave enough to explore the growing impact of screens on childhood. We see Bonnie become deeply attached to her "Lilypad," constantly seeking the next dopamine hit from her device. Alongside this, she's navigating some significant developmental milestones, her first sleepover, her first group chat, and the complex social world that children now experience both online and offline.
For me, one of the strongest messages in the film was the importance of play, particularly imaginative, unstructured play. The movie gently highlights something many of us are witnessing: children are spending less time immersed in imaginative worlds and more time engaging with technology. While there are many reasons for this (perhaps a topic for another blog), the impact on creativity, emotional development, and face-to-face connection is something worth reflecting on.
The film also explores another important theme: the pressure to fit in. Social media and digital culture can subtly encourage children to become the version of themselves they think others want to see, rather than embracing who they truly are. I loved that the story encouraged children to be brave enough to show up as themselves and reminded us that genuine connection comes from authenticity, not perfection.
As a play therapist, I couldn't help but hope that parents leave the cinema appreciating just how important free, imaginative play is for healthy child development. Through play, children develop problem-solving skills, emotional regulation, creativity, resilience, and the ability to connect deeply with others.
At the same time, I don't think the film suggests that technology is the enemy. Rather, it offers a thoughtful reminder that balance matters. Screens have their place, games can be enjoyable, and technology is part of modern life. The message isn't to eliminate screens but to ensure they don't replace the rich developmental experiences that come from imaginative play, movement, exploration, and real-world relationships.
I also found myself reflecting as a parent. Have I created enough opportunities for imaginative play? Have I protected enough space for boredom, creativity, and connection? I suspect many parents may leave asking themselves similar questions, and perhaps that's exactly what good stories are meant to do.
My hope is that Toy Story 5 sparks meaningful conversations within families:
What does a healthy balance between screens and play look like?
How are our children really feeling about their friendships?
Do they ever feel left out, different, or rejected?
Do they know they can come to us when those experiences inevitably arise?
These conversations matter just as much as the play itself.
If you get the chance, I highly recommend seeing Toy Story 5. Beyond the nostalgia, it's a timely reminder that children don't simply need entertainment—they need opportunities to imagine, connect, belong, and play.
And perhaps, as adults, we need that reminder too.
